Fin Wilder

I'm Fin; your kind, curious and candid companion. With 10 years' experience in the sex industry - from hot & heavy or gentle & sensual vanilla GFE to deep & dark dungeon Dominance - I'm evolving once again and offering a combination of all my favourite and flavorful frolics.

Starting testosterone hormone therapy has flicked a very fiery switch in me and I am soaking up all the sexiness it's bringing. I welcome old play partners and new, to explore and share with me, on a very sexy adventure.

My repertoire for play is diverse and devious, I'm a willing explorer, and if you're shy I can tease out your desires so they may be fulfilled. I love finding new ways to play and pleasure, and each encounter is special and unique.

Being with me is a grounding experience; I bring a depth, security and maturity that will reverberate through you long after we have parted company.

I love to dive deep into intimate conversation that gets to the heart of being human, in all its joyous peculiarities. I am comfortable with awkwardness and vulnerability, I'm unconventional and whimsical in where my mind likes to travel, and I welcome your quirks as I do my own. I've been told I'm witty and fun too! Kindness I value above all else.

I don't have an exhaustive service list, per se, so I invite you to be upfront about what you're seeking when enquiring about my TFE experiences (them-friend experience; not girlfriend, not boyfriend). As a guide I offer gentle TFE and kinky TFE, PSE, BDSM, and an erotic growth container.