My clients often come to me seeking intimacy, whether they know it or not. And while sometimes intimacy is about a physical erotic connection, it can also be about much, much more.
Don’t get me wrong, I love a sensual hour-long afternoon tryst between the sheets that fulfills a fantasy. Sometimes this scratches the itch, and there’s nothing wrong with that. But sometimes we find ourselves craving something more. And true intimacy can’t be built in an hour, even by the most skilled companion.
There’s something to be said about spending an entire evening together. Having time to unfold naturally in each other’s company. Relaxing over a meal together at your favourite restaurant and having the time to just be with one another, enjoying a long luxurious bath and ‘dessert’ before sleeping side by side, waking up and sharing a coffee together over flirtatious glances and a morning delight. On an overnight date, a connection can be established that simply isn’t accessible in a mere hour or two together.
Our evening together doesn’t necessarily have to involve dinner at an upscale restaurant. I’ve also found intimacy in sharing small, everyday activities with one another – falling asleep watching a movie together, spending time listening to music, or chatting to one another and sharing our interests. Without the concern about keeping an eye on the time, we can truly relax and get to know each other.
In my experience, the ‘off-the-clock’ nature of overnight dates also allows for a more enjoyable experience in the bedroom. After dinner, in the privacy of our room, we can slip into the plush hotel sheets together. The flirting, the teasing banter, the intimacy that has built up… After all, a romantic evening spent enjoying one another’s company is the ultimate foreplay.
On an overnight date, there is no rushing or concern about performing within a certain timeframe in the bedroom. Instead, we can let go, relax, explore, and become curious about getting to know what makes each other tick. Paired with the emotional connection that comes with spending more time together, the experience between the sheets can be truly mind-blowing.
Waking up together can also be an enjoyable and intimate experience. We can order coffee or tea to our room and relish the morning by enjoying it in bed together, or we can venture out to share breakfast together before we kiss goodbye (for now). Or perhaps you prefer a little bit more than a kiss when you wake up?
If you’re ready to relax, connect, and experience true satisfaction, contact me to start planning our overnight date.
