As my third month as an advertiser draws to a close, I’ve found myself the recipient of more gifts than usual; a champagne-coloured silk robe(from M x), beauty treatments (from T x) and massages (D xx). A particular gentleman(D, you’re amazing!) gifts me a different lingerie set before each meeting, his slow seduction always thrills me. I feel a little sheepish confessing this, I find it utterly intoxicating.
There’s something deeply seductive and attractive about a man who knows how to gift well. It’s not about extravagance (although I’d be lying if I said I didn’t adore the sensation of fine silk or cashmere against my naked skin), but about consideration. The way a beautifully chosen gift murmurs, “I see you. I’ve been thinking of you. I want to please you.” Surely, that’s the essence of desire? The eroticism of being known, truly known, in those little ways that unravel us.
A well-selected present is an extension of touch, of longing and anticipation. Perhaps that’s why it’s so exciting, knowing that somewhere, in some quiet moment, he was longing for me and wanted to draw closer, to shower me with this affection, anticipation and desire. And isn’t that the most exquisite kind of seduction?
I hope this next month, both yours and mine, is filled with desire, sensual delights and unforgettable moments of pleasure 🙂
Nina xx
