Meet Elora Drake, a Melbourne Escort. View Elora’s profile via: https://ivysociete.com/escorts/profile/elora-drake
What Turns You On?
Simple affection. Those moments of hand holding, forehead kisses and tight hugs are something I find deliciously connective.
Do you have any unexpected or unique turn ons?
I’m not sure if it is an unusual or unexpected turn-on but there is just something about seeing the way a smile reaches someone’s eyes that just instantly gets me feeling a certain kind of attraction.
Do you have a preference – morning or evening sex? Why?
I would say I prefer evening sex. There is something so satisfying about losing yourself in mutual pleasure with someone in the evening, then feeling so contentedly satisfied that you don’t dream when you sleep.
Favourite role play scenarios?
One of my favourite role plays is the lover welcoming home their partner after a long absence. The reason for the absence usually changes depending on the person.
What are your physical and non-physical turn ons?
Physical turn-ons:
Neck kisses
Tender caresses across my body
A tight grasp on my hips
Hugs from behind
Smiles
Non-Physical turn-ons:
The way someone smells
Laughter
Indulgence of whimsical curiosity
Honest and open communication
Do you have a favourite romantic gesture? Perhaps gifts, handwritten notes, cuddling?
Oh I utterly adore little gifts and handwritten notes. Both giving and receiving. They’re like little physical reminders you were being thought of and that feeling is just beautiful!
What type of music or specific songs that set the mood?
For me, it would be softer music that has a slow, kind of sensual beat.
What is most important to you: sexual, emotional, intellectual, spiritual or physical attraction? Can you explain why?
For me, I tend to notice and enjoy connections that are centred around the intellectual and emotional. When those parts of attraction are fulfilled for me, the others quickly follow suit.
What aspects of physical connection are most appealing to you in your professional encounters?
That very first smile, hug and kiss are almost indescribably some of my favourite moments. They are the physically connective acts that come at the start of something new; and it delights me.
How does attraction play a role in your interactions with clients?
I’ve found that in each client, there is something uniquely attractive about them. I cannot quite name what, but there is something about everyone that draws me in; and once I notice it, I feel attraction towards them.
What non-physical attributes do you find appealing in clients?
The absolute number one thing I find appealing is honest communicators. It’s sexy to have a communicative person approach because it can relieve so much anxiety for both parties and allow for pure enjoyment of our time together.
What do you find most rewarding about ensuring a positive experience for your clients?
Ensuring a positive experience for the clients just adds to my own enjoyment of the experience. I want people to feel an abundance of positive emotion, to aid them on their journey to pleasurable satisfaction in a multitude of ways.
How does effective communication with clients impact your professional encounters?
Without effective communication, it makes it harder to know if we are a good fit, which means it’s hard to ensure a pleasurable and positive experience for everyone. With some, you can sense they have difficulty communicating and others who just don’t put in the effort. The latter of which don’t get very far in the process.
Do you think understanding and communicating about turn-ons is important in a relationship? Why or why not?
Absolutely it is important. Everyone is so unique with their needs and desires, without communicating what they are, they don’t get fulfilled which can lead to one or both or all parties involved feeling affected by negative emotion and thoughts.
Have your turn-ons or things you find attractive changed over time?
I believe my turn-ons are somewhat always changing and fluid. The one constant turn on is communication, the rest seem to fall under that and change depending on who I’m interacting with.
How do you explore new turn-ons or fantasies in a safe consensual way?
The first thing I do is research the turn-on/fantasy on my own. Whether that be from various sources on the web or talking with trusted friends and peers to gather more information about it. When I feel ready, I reach out to a trusted and experienced friend to help me explore those things more intimately.
How do you establish and communicate boundaries when exploring turn-ons with a partner?
I let them know that I have something to say I need them to listen to, then as honestly as possible, talk about what I’d like to explore, what interests me about it, what makes me hesitate and safety protocols for the actual exploration (I.e safewords/aftercare needs)
What advice would you give to someone struggling to communicate their turn-ons to a partner?
You deserve to feel and indulge in what excites and turns you on. It can be scary to be so open with someone about these things, you may fear their reaction to your needs. However, your needs are just as important and valid as your partners and you should do your best to honestly communicate them, because you deserve to feel fulfilled and satisfied in all the ways you desire; and your partner deserves the chance to give that to you.
Do you think media (like movies, books etc) has influenced your perceptions of turn-ons and attractiveness?
To a certain extent, yes. I’ve always been a voracious consumer of books and I believe that over time, perhaps from the variety of literature and genres I read, the one thing that stuck with me is that there is always an attractive quality in any person.
How do you think booking escorts has influenced how people discover and communicate their turn-ons?
There is an aspect to seeing escorts that is safe, and by that I mean, you are accessing a service and when you utilise any service, there is a certain sense of reassurance that you are going to get the service you have sought out. I think this subconsciously, perhaps allows for an easier time communicating because there is that base of understanding.
Can you share an experience where effective communication about turn-ons enhanced your personal or professional relationship? What did you learn from it?
In the past, there was a period of time after a volatile end of a relationship, when I had retreated entirely. I was isolated and alone, trying to build life back up into something to be enjoyed. I realised one day that I had a need, to put it simply, for a safe experience of physical connection. I was lucky to one day connect with someone (a now peer) I could discuss these needs and how best to handle any negative reactions to touch with; blessed to have found someone so dedicated to creating a safe, supportive and satisfying environment. They encouraged me to express my desires, taught me to speak my wants and in doing so, gave me the courage to move forward and the desire to help others in the same way.
Are there any cultural or societal factors that you believe have influenced your perceptions of attractiveness and turn-ons? How do you navigate these influences in your personal and professional life?
There is a certain amount of pressure put on people to look a certain way, there always has been throughout history. Growing up, it was much harder to ignore those outside influences and it definitely gave me a skewed view of attractiveness. However over time, I gravitated towards surrounding myself with people who saw attractiveness below the surface image and that gradually changed my own perception of attractiveness in myself and others, both personally and professionally.
What advice would you give to individuals looking to explore their own turn-ons or preferences for the first time? How can they do so in a healthy and respectful way?
The best advice I can give is to be as openly honest as you possibly can. If you feel nervous about sharing your turn-ons with someone, take the time first to sit down and identify what they are and how you would like them to be fulfilled. Then write them down in whatever format is most helpful to you and keep it on hand when you do talk about them with someone, either to remind yourself of what you need to say, or to have the other person read if you feel you can’t speak the words.
In your opinion, how can open and honest communication about turn-ons and desires contribute to healthier and more fulfilling relationships?
Being able to openly and honestly communicate about these things, opens up your intimate relationships to a level of satisfaction you may have never experienced. By giving your intimate partner the information, and them giving theirs to you, you both get a deeper sense of receiving and giving satisfaction.
Have you encountered situations where clients or partners have felt uncomfortable discussing their turn-ons or boundaries? How do you create a safe and non-judgmental space for such conversations?
When it comes to situations like that, you can tell someone verbally that you won’t judge them but some won’t be able to believe that until they feel energetically, you are that safe space to express themselves.
What i like to do is keep the conversation light while sprinkling in questions to help them think and identify what they desire, if i begin to sense hesitation in their comfortability, i will change the topic, spend more time focused on the simple forms of affectionate touch and conversation to help relax them, then return to the topic when i sense they are ready. By using a nonchalant yet interested approach, it seems to help people open up more readily.
