Meet Avery Fires, a Melbourne Escort. View Avery’s profile via: https://ivysociete.com/escorts/profile/avery-fires
1. What turns you on?
I find confidence and a genuine connection to be incredibly arousing. Mutual respect and open communication also play a significant role in turning me on. Respectful communication is incredibly helpful in making the experience great for me.
2. Do you have any unexpected or unique turn-ons?
I’ve found that intellectual stimulation and engaging conversations can be unexpectedly arousing for me. Mental connection can be just as potent as physical chemistry.
3. Do you have a preference – morning or evening sex? Why?
I enjoy evening sex more as it allows for a relaxed and unhurried atmosphere. Mornings can be rushed, and I prefer to savour intimate moments without time constraints. I also appreciate someone who smells great. Morning breath and stink is not something thats conducive to a good time for me.
4. Favourite role play scenarios?
I appreciate role plays that involve power dynamics. I prefer to be in control and appreciate submissive customers. I especially enjoy playing the role of financial femdom and chastity keyholding.
5. What are your physical and nonphysical turn-ons?
– Physically, I’m drawn to strong, respectful and those who spend time on their personal hygiene. Non-physically I appreciate things like emotional intelligence, humour and empathy. They are definite turn-ons for me.
6. Do you have a favourite romantic gesture?
Personally, I adore interesting deep conversations, thoughtful gifts and definitely love appreciation from my clients. This really sets the tone and excitement for me.
7. What type of music or specific songs set the mood?
I really like “dark wave” and witch house music as music that “sets the mood”. But I also enjoy songs like “closer” by nine inch nails.
8. What is most important to you: sexual, emotional, intellectual, spiritual, or physical attraction? Can you explain why?
Intellectual attraction is by far the most important for me. Being with someone who i share similar interests with is incredibly important to me. I find conversations about things I don’t find interesting to be incredibly draining.
9. What aspects of physical connection are most appealing to you in your professional encounters?
I find that mutual exploration, respect in the bedroom and attentive responsiveness from my clients enhance the physical connection and make the encounter more enjoyable for both parties.
10. How does attraction play a role in your interactions with clients?
I find physical attraction to be the least important thing for me and this is with everyone. Not just the clients who engage my services. I am pansexual and do not personally have specific physical traits that sexually excite me.
11. What non-physical attributes do you find appealing in clients?
Respect, good communication skills, and a sense of understanding and empathy are highly attractive non-physical attributes in a client.
12. What do you find most rewarding about ensuring a positive experience for your clients?
The satisfaction of providing a safe and fulfilling space where my clients can explore their desires without judgement is one of the most rewarding aspects of my work.
13. How does effective communication with clients impact your professional encounters?
Clear communication fosters trust and allows for a better understanding of each other’s boundaries and desires. This, in turn, creates a more pleasurable and fulfilling experience for both parties.
14. Do you think understanding and communicating about turn-ons is important in a relationship? Why or why not?
Absolutely, understanding and effectively communicating about turn-ons is crucial in any intimate relationship. It fosters mutual respect, trust, and a deeper connection between partners.
15. Have your turn-ons or things that you find attractive changed over time?
Yes, my experiences and personal growth have broadened my perspective on what I find attractive and stimulating in someone. My work has encouraged this open perspective as to what I personally find attractive in someone.
16. How do you explore new turn-ons or fantasies in a safe and consensual way?
Open communication, establishing clear boundaries, and prioritizing mutual consent are essential when exploring new turn-ons or fantasies. Safe words and regular check-ins also contribute to a secure and consensual exploration.
17. How do you establish and communicate boundaries when exploring turn-ons with a partner?
I make it a point to have open and honest conversations before exploring any new turn-ons or fantasies. Clearly defining boundaries and ensuring mutual understanding are vital for a safe and enjoyable experience.
18.What advice would you give to someone struggling to communicate their turn-ons to a partner?
Start by creating a safe and non-judgmental space for open dialogue. Express yourself honestly and encourage your partner to do the same. Respect each other’s boundaries and take things one step at a time.
19. Do you think media (like movies, books, etc.) has influenced your perceptions of turn-ons and attractiveness?
Media certainly has an influence on everyone, but I’ve learned to differentiate between fantasy and reality. It’s essential to approach media portrayals with a critical mind and understand that they often exaggerate or glamorise certain aspects of intimacy.
20. How do you think booking escorts has influenced how people discover and communicate their turn-ons?
Booking escorts can provide a safe and non-judgmental environment for individuals to explore their desires. This experience can encourage open communication and help people better understand their turn-ons and preferences.
21. Can you share an experience where effective communication about turn-ons enhanced your personal or professional relationship? What did you learn from it?
Through effective communication, I was able to create a fulfilling and respectful professional relationship with a recent new client. It taught me the importance of patience with clients who had never gotten a sexual service before. I usually engage with clients who have more experience so it was good to challenge myself again.
22. Are there any cultural or societal factors that you believe have influenced your perceptions of attractiveness and turn-ons? How do you navigate these influences in your personal and professional life?
I strive to maintain an open mind, embrace diversity and enjoy what is on offer. I try to avoid cultural and societal factors when navigating what I find attractive. Although I can definitely see how I could potentially be unaware of these factors having an impact.
23. What advice would you give to individuals looking to explore their own turn-ons or preferences for the first time? How can they do so in a healthy and respectful way?
Start by understanding and accepting your desires without judgement. Communicate openly with a trusted partner, prioritise consent, and be willing to adapt and adjust based on each other’s boundaries and comfort levels.
24. In your opinion, how can open and honest communication about turn-ons and desires contribute to healthier and more fulfilling relationships?
Open and honest communication fosters trust and understanding, leading to a deeper connection and a more fulfilling sexual relationship. It helps in building a strong foundation of mutual respect and acceptance within the relationship. If you and your partner are unwilling to communicate and be open. In my honest opinion, It is absolutely doomed to fail.
25. Have you encountered situations where clients or partners have felt uncomfortable discussing their turn-ons or boundaries? How do you create a safe and non-judgmental space for such conversations?
Yes, this happens on such a regular basis. Some clients may initially feel uneasy discussing their desires, turn-ons and boundaries for a variety of interests. One of those things is usually shame. I create a safe and non-judgmental environment by actively listening, demonstrating some pretty basic empathy, and assuring them that their feelings and boundaries are respected and valued.
