The beauty of boundaries.
You might be wondering why it’s important to establish boundaries, and good communication with an escort? That’s exactly what this article sets out to achieve, while also giving you actionable tips on how to do so.
At Ivy Societe, we believe that sharing our industry knowledge can influence healthy practices that will ultimately allow them to have the best experience possible. One thing we know for sure is that clients with great communication skills, and respect for boundaries tend to have their companions completely comfortable and often going above and beyond in bookings.
So, what is effective communication, and how do you establish it? Think of it as a tool to enhance your personal, and professional relationships. When booking an escort, it begins at your very first point of contact; the booking request.
Let’s assume you’re looking to book Sydney escorts; if you’re communicating effectively, you will have sent a concise request including all the information needed to make the booking. This information might include a little about yourself, the time, date, location, and type of booking you’re seeking – along with any particular requests you may have.
You can’t expect escorts and babes to be mind readers, so be sure to include all the necessary details in your first message. The aim is to send as few messages as possible. Professionals rarely have time for phone tag, so save yourself and the escorts time by planning out your booking request carefully. We can assure you that this approach will have escorts appreciating that you respect their time.
The next thing to consider is the tone of your message; which should be polite, respectful, and careful not to overstep any potential boundaries. Potential boundaries are anything that might make a person feel uncomfortable such as asking for selfies, services that are not listed on the escorts profile, or anything that may be outside the legal realm of what Sydney escorts can offer.
Effective communication goes both ways; so make sure to outline your boundaries, too. These might include preferences such as texting within business hours, or on particular days of the week.
Establishing good communication with escorts and babes is the best way to secure a booking, and walk into your booking with comfort and ease. These communication skills that you employ early on will only get stronger as you use them, and you will be effectively and efficiently securing memorable bookings in no time.
Disclaimer: This blog is for informative and leisurely reading, written for the purpose of engaging in dialogue surrounding the sex industry. It is not possible for myself to speak on behalf of all sex workers, as we each have our own unique experiences and values. I write these words from my perspective as an independent escort from Australia, who has been in the industry for many years and engaged with many other leading Australian escorts. I do my best to be inclusive of all experiences, however I speak only on behalf of my own journey. Where necessary seek your own professional advice.
