I have been a lifestyle and commercial kink provider for almost a decade. Throughout my journey, especially in commercial settings, I’ve noticed a recurring issue-the belief that we exist solely for your gratification, for your transactional servitude. This has never been the case. The mentality that I need your booking is tiresome. I don’t need your money-I want your servitude, and there’s a significant difference.
What’s often missing is intent. What intent do you have? What do you bring to the table? Are you just looking to get off? offering money? I have a vibrator, and money comes and goes, but true submission-serving a Mistress with genuine intent-leaves an impression that lasts forever. Don’t insult a Mistress by treating her like a late-night booty call. Show effort. Take the time. Demonstrate your devotion before you even step into the room.
I’ve made myself purposefully less accessible, and there are a few reasons for this. Primarily, it’s to add layers of intention to the process. To contact me, you must email or submit a form through my website-you can’t simply pick up the phone. You need to organize the location, whether by researching and sending me the details to book under my name or booking it yourself. My rates are higher, meaning you might have to save and won’t be able to see me frequently.
Booking me requires planning, effort, and research. But that’s the point: intention. Before my injury, which put me on hiatus for a number of years, kink had become transactional-and that’s not what kink is about.
I am dedicated to reclaiming kink by stripping it down to its core: servitude. The focus should be on the Mistress, not on fulfilling a temporary role for gratification. Come with the intent to serve, to appreciate, and to worship. Approach with the mindset and intention of “how can I make my Mistress’s life or day better?” This is where true devotion lies.
I won’t scramble, pander, or negotiate for a booking. But will create an authentic space for you to surrender and truly serve. Offer you the chance to create lasting memories that will stay with you forever. Most importantly, I’ll give you the time and effort that you give to me.
~GD
