This is a new theme happening in the industry which I wish to address. Clients pay for a deposit and the girl then ghosts or is a no-show.
Firstly, on behalf of all legit, professional escorts, I am sorry for the gentlemen who have been ripped off with deposits.
I know the feeling, of having prepaid for a hotel room and then the client canceling 20min before the booking and another time, not showing (I did not ask for a deposit as both PROMISED me they were legit.)
So here are some suggestions that I hope will help regarding booking an escort who asks for a deposit:-
1. Check out her socials on Twitter or Instagram- is she regularly posting everyday life stuff and engaging?
2. Did you talk with her before paying the deposit to ensure she is real?
3. Does she have a website, professional photos, and selfies?
4. What is her refund policy?
5. Look at the site where she is advertising. Is it a legit one or is it full of random women you don’t see anywhere else?
6. Forgive her/yourself and learn from your mistake. Most professional escorts I know are the most loving, smart, honest and sincere women you will meet.
I can only speak for myself but deposits show my commitment to you and your commitment to me. It creates anticipation and provokes thoughts of excitement. It also allows me to spend time on myself more as I know – this is definite.
I hope this little journal reassures you more and thanks for reading,
Love
Your Jennifer James xxx
