Wolf or dog? That is the question ladies want to figure out fast.
As a client, what rating do you even have the potential of scoring?
Want to know?
This is Part 1 of collating your score ok.
Mind you, this is the Lily score.
Each lady will have her own, unique way of rating you.
However, your score with me, is HIGHLY likely to be preeettty close to how others would rate you also.
Read on. Be really, really HONEST with yourself ok?
LET’S GET TO IT SHALL WE?
I get a lot of messages. I mean, ALOT.
Enough messages to have developed an accurate sixth sense, in the FIRST message, about which men have serious value they are bringing to the table, and which men are time wasters, big talkers, borderline psychopaths/narcissists/sociopaths and utter time- wasters.
TEXT SKILLS MATTER OH SO MUCH
For the purpose of this blog, I’ll call “real” men Wolves, and “wannabe” men Dogs. (These are my thoughts, opinions, and observations. They don’t stand for everyone, so please, take your recreational outrage elsewhere).
Wolves get to the point. Their messages are short, sweet, respectful without being thirsty, and they say exactly what it is they are looking for. Dogs, on the other hand, send meandering, fantasy-based messages. “This is what I’m going to do to you/ you’re going to love this/I have lots of money/I want this, I want that….. Or the worst I have encountered is a photograph of a stash of money. *eyeroll*.They haven’t established any rapport with me, and they are already on a disconnected, tangential fantasy, that almost has no room for a lady to enter into the equation.
ACT NOT TALK
Wolves act. Wolves will write me about wanting to buy content/meeting up/id screening, get my email, and immediately do whatever needs to be done to get what they want. Dogs, TALK. They make promises. They tell me all about their plans. They guarantee they are serious, then complain when it comes to the point of actually ACTING “I didn’t know it was going to cost that much/I didn’t think I’d have to travel that far/aww. I thought your content was free/Can’t you just come over right now?”
REALITY NOT FANTASY
Wolves live in reality. They have integrated, busy lives, and their time is valuable. They don’t ramble, they don’t ask “Can I ask you a question?”. They don’t have to be told twice. You ask them to read something, they read it. Dogs, live in a fantasy world. You tell them you don’t give out your kik, you don’t meet up before being screened, and that it doesn’t matter where they live, you can travel to them, and they respond to this message with “Can I have your kik? Also, what’s your address, can you fuck me right now, and where do you live?” They are so detached from the fabric of reality that you can hold up a sign saying “Stop/Cliff!”, and they will continue talking about how big their cock is, as the car flies off the edge.
WOLVES ARE SUCCINCT
Wolves under promise and over deliver. Dogs make nothing but promises, and never deliver.
Wolves only have to be told once. Dogs can’t seem to grasp the simplest instructions.
Wolves send one message. If you don’t respond, they move on. Dogs send message, after message, that start to escalate often into threats of violence. Or they send this: “??????” Click the following link to see how I am constantly weirded out by text similar to ?? or Avail? https://www.lilylevine.com.au/article-discussing-texts-like-available-how-ladies-need-some-time-to-prepare-for-an-appointment/
They don’t understand that a non-response may mean that I’m busy, out of service and haven’t even SEEN their message yet. They take everything personally, because they are insecure. Wolves get validation from an inward source, Dogs seek it endlessly, from outside sources.
Wolves give respect. Dogs are disrespectful.
DO, DON’T TELL
Wolves don’t tell you what they are going to do to you in bed, they work to deepen the connection authentically, they progress the conversation, and intuit your wants and needs. They know sex comes AFTER seduction. Dogs IMMEDIATELY start telling you they will “fuck you better than anyone”, without asking you anything about what you like, what you want, or what it would actually take to make it happen. ☹ ☹
COMMUNICATION DEMEANOR
Wolves don’t get mad, or insult you. They exude confidence and nothing knocks them off their feet. Dogs take any opportunity possible to be offended, take things personally, and feel like they are being taken advantage of, tricked, or lied to. They have no resilience. All it takes is not answering their message almost immediately to begin an onslaught of messages about what a “stuck up bitch” you are for not realising how amazing they are. Then, they apologise, then when you don’t answer the apology, they attack you again.
Whoops…..I have like 20 more…..but a Wolf I’ve known for a while just offered to pick me up on his super cool road bike, with my favourite Beveridge……a steamy thermos of coffee, and take me out to watch the stars (I LOVE stargazing, coffee and road bikes…and he took the time to learn that)!!!
He’s big, and bad, but tonight I’m gonna…blow…his house down.
Heheheh, puuurrrrrr.
Lily xxx
NOW, THE FUN BIT!!!
What is YOUR score?
SCORING: The scale is a 1 through to 10. 10 is your highest score. Trust me. 10 is REALLY hard to obtain, and it has nothing to do with your sexual prowess.
Ok. If you answered honestly and you decided that you are a dog I am going to give you a 1. You get your 1 because at the very least, you were honest. That deserves something. Across the board. Everyone of you who admits to being a dog, 1 is your rating. I applaud honesty but I would block you immediately upon receiving your texts. You are exactly the kind of client I wish to filter so far away from me you aren’t even in my stratosphere. Bye, bye, so full of your own self-importance that your ego is overly inflated. You are suffering the Dunning-Kruegar effect. Here is a link if you don’t know what it is https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dunning%E2%80%93Kruger_effect In laymans terms as you won’t understand Wiki, it means, you will feel insulted by what I have said and will “up your self-dialogue” about your importance and be full of rage at me for calling you out. Oh, and you will never change. Self-improvement is never on your agenda. You are cool enough as is. Meh.
If you know that you are a wolf – AWESOME. CONGRATS. Most ladies will LOVE spending time with you.
You should keep an eye on my journal.
Because you will so far be sitting on a 6. How high you score I shall reveal in Part 2 of my quizz.
Happy Sexting….
