What’s really holding women back from booking a male escort?
It’s not always time.
It’s not always money.
Often, it’s fear.
Fear of what their friends might think.
Fear of being judged.
Fear of stepping into a world where women are allowed to take up space, to have needs, to claim their pleasure.
But here’s the truth I see every day:
The women who do take that step—who choose themselves, who say yes to their own desires—are not judged.
They are admired.
They are seen as brave.
As strong.
As women other women wish they could be like.
Because it takes courage to say: “This is for me.”
And for so many, there’s another fear beneath the surface.
A quiet voice that whispers:
“But what if I’m not good enough?”
“What if my body isn’t enough?”
I hear it often.
Women asking me if it’s okay that they’re curvy.
If it’s okay that they have stretch marks.
That they’re not a size 8.
And every time, I tell them:
You are more than okay.
You are beautiful.
You are desirable.
You are irresistible.
Because true attraction isn’t about dress sizes or flawless skin.
It’s about the way your energy fills a room.
It’s the warmth of your heart, the kindness in your eyes, the strength you carry from all you’ve lived through.
The real beauty of a woman isn’t measured in kilos or centimeters.
It’s found in her soul.
Her courage.
Her presence.
Any man who can’t see past the surface—who reduces women to their bodies, who hides behind a screen sending unsolicited photos, who comments cruelly on women’s appearances—is showing you his limitations.
Not yours.
A real man—a conscious man—sees the whole woman.
And he’s drawn to her depth, her truth, her wildness.
That’s what makes you sexy.
That’s what makes you unforgettable.
So if you’ve been waiting…
Waiting until you feel thinner.
Waiting until you feel worthy.
Waiting until you’re “ready.”
I want you to know:
You already are.
Right here. Right now.
You are worthy of pleasure.
Of connection.
Of being seen, fully and completely, as the radiant woman you are.
And when you’re ready, I’ll be here.
—Tyler Banks
