Meet Leo Embers, a Melbourne Escort. View Leo’s profile via: https://ivysociete.com/escorts/profile/leo-embers
What turns you on?
I have so many turn-ons. Kisses on my neck drive me crazy, nails down my back makes me primal, and a hot fantasy is enough to make me growl, but it all starts with building mutual comfort with my partner, or else we’re never going to get to this fun stuff.
Oh, by the way, don’t let internet influencers tell you otherwise, because enthusiasm is hot as all hell. Don’t bother trying to play it cool 😉
Do you have any unexpected or unique turn ons?
One of my more unique turn-ons is the warm fuzzy feeling I get when I’m able to create a safe space for someone to fulfill their taboo fantasies that they otherwise wouldn’t have the chance to experience.
Do you have a preference – morning or evening sex? Why?
I have a preference for evening sex. I love taking our time in the night, enjoying a few drinks, pampering each other in the shower, and then ravaging each other in bed before falling asleep with someone’s head on my chest.
Favorite role play scenarios?
I’m incredibly switch, so my favorite role-play scenario can change depending on who I’m with, but I’m very much into taboo fantasies, and the cheating roleplay always gets my heart racing.
What are your physical and nonphysical turn ons?
My physical turn-ons are touch and kissing, and my nonphysical turn-ons are enthusiasm, hygiene, and whatever sexy fantasy we can create together. I love a little story behind the sex… whether I’m your high school crush at our reunion, or something a bit more devious.
Do you have a favorite romantic gesture? Perhaps gifts, had written notes, cuddling
My favorite romantic gesture is gifts that show you’ve listened to me and that you cherish our connection. One of my lovely lovers gifted me a longboard, and I love sending them photos whenever I ride it.
What is most important to you: sexual, emotional, intellectual, spiritual or physical attraction? Can you explain why?
Emotional attraction is the most important to me. To be honest, it’s difficult to perform if I don’t feel comfortable around you, so I won’t accept a booking if you make me uncomfortable. Just be nice 🙂
What aspects of physical connection are most appealing to you in your professional encounters?
I love physical touch and enthusiasm, so please run your hands and lips over me. I also happen to love it when you crawl into bed with me and warm your cold feet on my hot body.
What non-physical attributes do you find appealing in clients?
I adore kindness, enthusiasm, integrity, cute shy people, strong dominant people, and so many areas in between. Just be yourself. I’m sure I’ll find a reason to adore you, too.
What do you find most rewarding about ensuring a positive experience for your clients?
The most rewarding aspect of creating a positive experience for my client is knowing that I’ve been able to create a safe space for them to experience something that they might not have been able to any other way and giving them that safe space to grow and explore their desires from.
How do you explore new turn-ons or fantasies in a safe and consensual way?
When exploring new fantasies, especially of the taboo variety, I find it helpful to have a casual conversation about our boundaries using the traffic light method.
Greens are things we love and want to explore in this scene, yellows are things we are interested in but are still unsure about, and we can talk about them further but won’t be implementing them this time, and reds are off-limit no-nos.
What advice would you give to individuals looking to explore their own turn-ons or preferences for the first time? How can they do so in a healthy and respectful way?
Discovering your turn-ons is like starting going on a treasure hunt–exciting, a bit mysterious, and rewarding. My advice? Begin with self-reflection and get to know your own map–what piques your interest in movies, books, or fantasies? Use these as compass points.
If you’re exploring with a partner communication is key, so have an open, honest, and, most importantly, relaxed conversations. It’s not a job interview; it’s a shared adventure, so have fun with it.
It’s about finding joy and comfort in your skin and with others, so be patient. Some preferences might be a hit; others, a miss. It’s all part of the adventure, so take it one step at a time, and don’t forget to enjoy the scenery!
In your opinion, how can open and honest communication about turn-ons and desires contribute to healthier and more fulfilling relationships?
Open and honest communication about desires is both the glue and the secret sauce for a healthy relationship. Being open with your partner fosters trust and intimacy, while also helping you have much better sex and fulfill your actual fantasies, instead of settling for what you THINK the other wants.
Have you encountered situations where clients or partners have felt uncomfortable discussing their turn-ons or boundaries? How do you create a safe and non-judgmental space for such conversations?
Absolutely, it’s not uncommon for people to feel a bit shy or uneasy when it comes to talking about their turn-ons and boundaries. The key to creating a safe and non-judgmental space is all about fostering open communication and trust. I like to set the stage for these conversations by sharing first and showing vulnerability on my end. This usually helps to break the ice. I also make it clear that there’s no ‘wrong’ answer–only what makes you feel good and what doesn’t. Plus, I sprinkle in a healthy dose of humor to keep things light. Remember, it’s like discussing your favorite pizza toppings; everyone has different tastes, and that’s perfectly okay, I will fight anyone who says that pineapple doesn’t belong in pizza.
