If you’ve been following me for a while, you know I don’t believe in rushing things. I’m all about slowing down, letting moments stretch, and seeing what unfolds when two people are truly present with each other.
But if you’ve ever wondered what I really look for in the kind of connection that makes me want to stay a little longer… here’s what matters to me.
Comfort.
There’s nothing sexier than feeling at ease with someone. I love that quiet moment when the conversation settles, and it’s just two people being themselves. No pressure. No performance. Just a shared breath and the space to be real.
Curiosity.
Ask me questions. Tell me stories. Let’s explore each other’s minds a little before we even think about bodies. I’m drawn to people who want to know more—who see intimacy as an adventure rather than a checklist.
Warmth.
I’ve always been a bit of a soft touch (literally and figuratively). Smiles that reach the eyes. A gentle hand at the small of my back. A voice that drops when it gets serious. It’s the subtle things that make me melt.
Respect.
This one’s non-negotiable. Respect for my time, my boundaries, my energy. It’s the foundation that makes everything else work. Because when I feel respected? That’s when I can really let go and be fully present with you.
Chemistry.
Let’s not forget the spark. The easy banter. The shared laugh that lingers. The way my skin prickles when you lean in a little too close. That’s the magic you can’t fake—and the part I’m always chasing.
That’s what I look for.
Not a list of demands, but an invitation.
