Looking for some fresh reading that offers an authentic, no-holds-barred look into the world of escorts? Here’s a list of must-read books about sex work, from memoirs to critical analysis, that shine a light on the lived experiences of sex workers. Whether you’re in the industry or simply curious to learn more, these books are full of personal stories, smart critiques, and empowering messages.
Our list of must-reads
“Revolting Prostitutes” by Molly Smith and Juno Mac
This one’s a powerhouse! Written by two sex workers themselves, Revolting Prostitutes digs deep into the politics surrounding sex work. It goes beyond the sensationalised portrayals you usually see and talks about sex work in terms of labor rights, safety, and justice. Molly and Juno are unapologetic in their advocacy for decriminalisation, making this a must-read for anyone who’s interested in the bigger picture.
“Whore of New York” by Liara Roux
Ever wondered what it’s like working as a queer escort in New York? Liara Roux gives you a front-row seat. This memoir is candid and raw, focusing on identity, autonomy, and the personal side of sex work. It’s not just about work; it’s about what it means to be human in a world that wants to put labels on you. Perfect if you’re looking for something introspective.
“Playing the Whore: The Work of Sex Work” by Melissa Gira Grant
If you’re more into non-fiction, Playing the Whore is a thought-provoking look at sex work as labor. Melissa Gira Grant debunks common myths and addresses the stigmatisation that often comes with sex work. She doesn’t sugarcoat the challenges but reminds us that sex workers deserve rights like any other worker. A great pick for those who want a deeper dive into the industry.
“The Ethical Slut” by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy
While The Ethical Slut isn’t solely about sex work, it’s a classic in the sex-positive movement. It dives into consensual non-monogamy, ethical sexuality, and why openness in relationships and work matters. It’s a great read for anyone interested in sex, relationships, and challenging societal norms.
“Diary of a Manhattan Call Girl” by Tracy Quan
Diary of a Manhattan Call Girl is a fictionalised yet insightful peek into the life of a high-end call girl. Written by someone who’s been in the business, it’s part fun read, part insider’s view. If you’re in the mood for something light but still filled with real-life details, give this a shot.
“Sex Workers Unite: A History of the Movement from Stonewall to SlutWalk” by Melinda Chateauvert
This book chronicles the activism within the sex worker community, linking it to broader civil rights movements. It’s eye-opening to see how interconnected sex workers’ rights are with LGBTQ+ and feminist struggles. If you’re into history and activism, this book is an educational and powerful read.
Australian books
Through this raw and darkly funny memoir, Rita explores the complexities of identity, revealing that moving forward often means writing your own story. Initially an outsider, she finds connection within the sex industry—a world filled with glamour, drugs, and validation.
“Happy Endings” by Bella Green
This is a candid and hilarious memoir about Bella’s life as a “Sunday-afternoon” sex worker. Bella’s clients range from IT nerds to divorced dads, but her true motivation was simple: the cash. Through her journey in brothels, strip clubs, and dominatrix dungeons, Bella offered a sharp, witty, and unflinching look at the realities of sex work.
“Nothing but my Body” by Tilly Lawless
Tilly Lawless, a young queer sex worker in Australia, reflects on breakups, longing, and desire. Set during the 2019 bushfires and COVID-19 pandemic, the narrative moves between Sydney and rural Australia, with sex work as a constant backdrop.
Why These Books Matter
Sex work is often shrouded in misconceptions, but these books break down barriers and invite readers into the realities of the profession. They provide an honest, sometimes gritty, but always insightful view of the challenges, joys, and everyday lives of sex workers. By reading these stories, you’re not just learning about the business—you’re hearing from people who live it.
If you’re looking to broaden your understanding or even just find a good story, these books offer a mix of educational content, personal experience, and straight-up good reads. We also publish journals and blogs from members of the Ivy Societe community, you can take a look here.
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