A friend encouraged me to seek out someone to help me through a few things I’d been going through. It took a little looking and I’m so happy I found Tyler. When I finally booked and went to see him, I was probably in one of the most nervous states that I’d ever been in. It took me a while of fighting with myself over raising my hand to knock on the door. Once I pushed myself to knock, I froze, Tyler answered the door and I’m sure I would have been quite the sight of a little frozen beetroot standing on his doorstep. My eyes never left the floor as we greeted each other and I shuffled inside silently. Tyler was kind enough to just sit with me for a while as I tried to relax, he asked if he could do anything to ease my anxiety. As there was no change he asked if it was ok to ask me some questions. We just talked for a while, he never pushed too hard for more answers but enough that I opened up as much as I was able. As we were talking, I started to relax a little, he incorporated gently touching my arm and thigh just to ease me into his touch. My anxiety levels didn’t change but my body slowly relaxed. After he knew all he needed to know, he slowly expanded his touch, across my shoulder and neck easing me into things. I don’t have a lot of experience and Tyler was kind enough to guide me and go slowly, checking each time to see if I liked something or not, helping me to explore. The care he gave me during and after was astonishing. He was so kind and made me feel as though I can trust him with anything. I shared some fantasies which he incorporated into our time together. Never once has he made me feel like I’m being judged or not worth his time. He’s entirely focused on you when you’re together, the world just falls away for a while. Complete peace is how I feel when I’m with him, I’m not very good at communicating verbally or sharing how I feel. He’s given me time to figure out how to talk with him. He mostly started by reading my body language as I couldn’t bring myself to really talk with him about what I was feeling. I shut down physically/emotionally when anxious, usually involving communication or feelings. I’ve seen him twice now and plan to see him again in the future, he really took care of me while I was there. He’s also given me so much time outside appointments as he patiently answers the million questions I’ve asked him. He’s taken in his stride my anxiety and negative thoughts, always answering kindly, putting me at eased. He’s given me the best experiences and I’ve had the time of my life with him. I look forward to spending more time with him in the future. If you’re unsure or have questions, reach out to Tyler and he can help you as he’s an amazing person xx
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