I’d been considering using an escort service to lose my virginity since I turned 30, spending literal years agonizing over it, looking up profiles and reading the very minimal experiences left by women that had done the same at my age. But what led me to choosing Tyler was his online presence. His active social media gave me an insight to what type of person he was (funny, empathetic, thoughtful with similar interests to me) and his personal website had a much more professional look than many of the other OnlyFans type profiles I was coming across. As an extremely awkward, overweight, socially anxious, autistic minded 35-year-old, I was really drawn to Tyler’s list of qualifications in disability awareness, sexological bodywork, trauma & counselling, and his continued interest in working with vaginismus. It demonstrated to me how serious Tyler was at providing a safe, accommodating and empathetic service and it encouraged me to reach out to him, believing he’d be the best suited to handle me at my worst. He replied to my anxiously overthought emails with prompt and reassuring replies without making me feel like I was annoying him or wasting his time, and on the day, he was constantly in touch, keeping me updated via text if he was late and where to meet. When we finally met, he was so relaxed and at ease that it was like meeting someone who already knew me and he handled my intense anxiety and nervousness like a champ, finding common ground with me quickly. I felt so ashamed about my body and obvious lack of experience, but Tyler adapted and knew exactly how to slowly introduce physical contact and move around in the space around me that I was able to relax and have my first kiss! He never once made me feel judged, mocked or embarrassed, and playfully leaned in to some banter and teasing that had me literally giggling and offsetting any worries I had. I was a nightmare of a client as I didn’t know how to communicate very well but Tyler knew exactly what needed to be said and was able to answer my questions and teach me about my body and what to expect in the dating scene and in bed! With him, I was able to explore having sex for the first time, my own body and mind when it comes to sexual intimacy, and get past my own reservations about it all. When experimenting, he was open, encouraging and listened when I said I was uncomfortable, quick to reassure and quick to pull back when hitting a limit of mine. The next day there was even communication to check-in with me, which I wasn’t expecting at all, and it really made me feel like a respected client. Choosing Tyler for this experience was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made and I’m able to look back on my first time with a huge grin and a bit of a blush, no longer terrified or ashamed at my inexperience. Definitely looking to book Tyler again in the future because as they say with all skills, practice makes perfect! ;)