I hadn't been to bed (or even on a date) with anyone new for a decade and a half when I started seeing Sam Hunter last year. I was nervous as hell sneaking out of work for a long lunch to go on a social date - SOBER! - and see if he was what he appears to be online. As a massive oversharer myself I had read all his NGL answers up to that point, looking for trouble before I booked in to meet him. In person he was a well mannered gent, very patient and a good listener. I talked a lot and had pages of notes (totally normal behaviour, right?) when I paused for breath, I mentioned wanting to kiss him. I was pleasantly rewarded for my boldness. I feel comfortable in his presence, he gives off "best friend's hot cousin" vibes. Fun to flirt with, no trouble reigniting if you don’t catch up for months, sometimes plays the fool, not afraid of deeper conversations, interested in women without being too nosey. I've been upfront about what I want and what I don’t, he has paid attention well. I would recommend his service to a dear friend, in fact I already have.