When I reached out to Lucius I hadn’t had sex in about 7 years (ouch!) At 48 I had come out of a long unsatisfying relationship and had just started building a really joyful single existence. I then found myself desperately craving intimacy, but it had been so long that I had lost all my confidence in that arena. I felt really uptight in my body, unattractive, and couldn’t even begin to contemplate tackling the online dating thing. A lovely friend suggested I see a male escort and sent me a link to Lucius’s profile which she said looked “exceptional”. I checked it out and agreed that he looked solid (both in terms of his ethos and physique). His ‘About me’ section, videos and testimonials were all really reassuring, and while very nervous, I decided to get in touch. I wrote him an email explaining my situation and what I was looking for. He got back to me very quickly and was so incredibly lovely and encouraging. In fact, one of the best things about Lucius is the way he communicates. He emphasises the importance of getting to know you before you meet up, so a genuine connection is formed, and it’s this that enables him to be exactly what you need him to be. For example, in the lead up to our first meeting I had expressed a number of fears and had a few questions. In his response he touched on every one of these and was so reassuring. He made it crystal clear that he understood where I was coming from, that everything was fine, and that we were going to have an awesome time. Which we did. Lucius is consistently thoughtful and always easily intuited what I needed. In that first meeting he made me feel so comfortable. He confidently led the way so I didn’t have to overthink it. What was most surprising, was actually how fun (and a bit silly) it ended up being, in the absolute best way. It lightened everything. Lucius creates a very safe space in which he encourages you to be your truest self - to explore and communicate your thoughts, desires and fantasies, whatever they may be. He’s up for it all and doesn’t judge. I did this a lot in the lead up to our second meeting and it made it absolutely amazing. My short interaction with Lucius has had a huge impact on me. It’s been so empowering and my confidence has increased so much. While I’m almost ready for the dating apps now, I suspect I’ll book Lucius again in the near future, simply because he’s so sexy and fun. If you’re having any doubts, I recommend just reaching out to Lucius and seeing what he comes back with