Meet Sasha Sinns, a Perth and Touring Escort. View Sasha’s profile via: https://ivysociete.com/escorts/profile/sasha-sinns-in-rockingham-wa
What turns you on?
This is a slightly difficult question, as for me it is not at all as straightforward as it might be for other people. Many things can turn me on, but it is all subjective to whom I’m with, where I am as well as what has happened earlier in the day and what might be happening the rest of the day. Sometimes it’s kissing, intimate touching, feeling each other’s breath, skin, body heat, body movements, someone’s voice/sounds can all combine to be a truly extraordinary experience. Other times it could be seeing someone I’ve seen before and just dive into each other and fuck each others brains out. And occasionally, I get to worship someone in so many ways, (with the full set up, music, hair and make up on point, outfit, lingerie and heels) by making the experience all about them, which I absolutely LOVE doing! In those situations I’m satisfied on so many levels, I’m not even concerned whether or not I receive any sexual pleasure from that person.
Do you have a preference – morning or evening sex? Why?
I’ve always been more of an evening sex lover. I’m not entirely sure why. There have been some instances where i have spent a wonderful overnight/sleepover with some lovers and the morning sex was absolutely mind blowing. So this also might be situational and depend on who I’m with, where we are staying and what we did the night before (as I can’t say I’m a huge fan of having sex when I’m hung over lol).
Favorite role play scenarios?
Sadly, I haven’t even attempted many roleplay scenarios. I would like to change this one day, but I would have to find that very special and unique person to help me in those types of situations.
What are your physical and nonphysical turn ons?
Physical turn ons may be physical, but not at the same time lol. Joys of being Pansexual I suppose. Eyes are a big one for me, they tell alot more than I think most of us would like, smile, lips and how someone takes care of themselves (skin care, hygiene, hair ect). For men exclusively, I love body hair, shoulders and hands. For women (all those who identify as women or feminine), I absolutely die for soft skin, curves, breasts, thick thighs, booty, tummy. Who am I kidding, I love pretty much everything when it comes to women.
Non-physical turn ons are similar across the board, respectful, is all about consent, knowledgeable on sexual health to a point. how someone looks at me, sense of humour, honesty, open/transparent communication, lived experience for sure and one of the most important ones is being a good conversationalist.
Do you have a favorite romantic gesture? Perhaps gifts, had written notes, cuddling
I have always adored the little things, cute texts, letting me know you are thinking of me or sending me a little tip on Beem It for my favourite coffee or meal. I have always been very surprised with gifts from my lovers as well, especially when it’s something I really like or wanted which they figured that out on their own. That always made me feel pretty special and made me all smiley. Another would be something I have only actually experienced once, where someone planned a whole thing for me to spoil me, rented the perfect room for the night, made dinner reservations at a very fancy restaurant and planned a full day spa treatments. Was amazing, I definitely wish that happened more times in my life, I will just have to start saving up so I can do this for myself lol.
What type of music or specific songs that set the mood?
This is completely dependent on so many things. What the other person likes, length of booking and type of booking. I have a few playlists, as music is life for me personally, but if someone books an extended date then I usually ask about their music preferences.
What is most important to you: sexual, emotional, intellectual, spiritual or physical attraction? Can you explain why?
I think I might be greedy… I like a good balance of all the above personally. But emotional connection is definitely one of the more important ones. It’s great for everyone if you vibe well with someone, especially right from the start, then you can work together with everything else. Physical attraction still doesn’t make sense to me, as most people have a “type”, I don’t. None of my ex partners look anything like one another.
What aspects of physical connection are most appealing to you in your professional encounters?
Physical connection is amazing, without a doubt. Sometimes a physical connection comes easily, other times not so much. Sometimes people require a bit more time and rapport before that can happen, which is completely normal. I feel that I am very blessed, as I don’t usually have many struggles in reading people, even in an intimate situation. This can allow for a real, genuine and raw physical connection, which is fucking amazing. I think this is definitely one of the main reasons why many of my lovers keep coming back for more.
How does attraction play a role in your interactions with clients?
Need more context with this question. But physical attraction doesn’t play any role in my interactions with my clients. However when someone contacts me after actually reading my information, sending through all the required information and the sending through their deposit without hesitation makes them hot as fuck and I am instantly looking forward to meeting that person, in all the good ways.
What non-physical attributes do you find appealing in clients?
Open/transparent communication, honesty, respect, common courtesy, sticking to what is included in our time together, listening to instructions and following the rules. All of those make absolutely anyone appealing to me and they are all pretty simple things in my opinion.
What do you find most rewarding about ensuring a positive experience for your clients?
Everything. Every experience with each client is completely different and unique, even if it’s doing the exact same thing in every session. I provide a variety of different things, so when I can help my client feel good, gain confidence, assist with intimacy, use my expertise to show them something completely new or just be there for them in any other way in that moment, then it’s an amazingly rewarding experience.
How does effective communication with clients impact your professional encounters?
In many ways, which can either make the experience or break it so to speak. Without effective and clear communication, that person probably won’t even be able to make a booking with me. And if they do, it’s probably not going to be an enjoyable experience for either person and I probably won’t see them again. With clear and effective communication, all the bullshit is already sorted prior, so we can actually get together and fully enjoy our time together.
Do you think understanding and communicating about turn-ons is important in a relationship? Why or why not?
Understanding and communicating about turn-ons is very important in a relationship. Some people are still learning new things about themselves all the time, and other people know alot about themselves so it would be beneficial for everyone to communicate and understand your partner(s). Communication and understanding is important in all aspects of any relationship and/or friendship.
Have your turn-ons or things that you find attractive changed over time?
Oh definitely! Looking back I cannot believe how so many things have and can change over time. Some things about myself I wish I was well aware of years and years ago, would have had so much more amazing and fun experiences with so many different people.
How do you explore new turn-ons or fantasies in a safe and consensual way?
That hasn’t happened in my personal life in quite some time. In a work scenario it would usually be with someone I have seen before, depending on if it’s new for me or new for my client. But start with a conversation with each other, then make a plan and go from there.
How do you establish and communicate boundaries when exploring turn-ons with a partner?
This can be done in a number of ways. As this can be very confronting to some, it was for me for a very long time. So it all depends on what you are comfortable with and what works for you. You can open the lines of communication to start the conversation with a face to face conversation in a safe space environment, sometimes a phone call or video call might be a better option, or you can write letters or texts. I do recommend sitting down when you are on your own to write your own thoughts, ideas, questions and concerns beforehand, this way you can make sure that everything can be discussed.
What advice would you give to someone struggling to communicate their turn-ons to a partner?
You are not alone. I have always known the basics of communication, but due to other factors, I have struggled with actually putting my own knowledge and skills about communication into action. But as said above, there are a number of different ways you can approach this and be able to communicate your turn-ons with your partner. Even starting the conversation can be challenging, so maybe sharing a photo, video, article, post ect, can assist with opening the lines of communication about it. Then you can find an option of communication that works the best for you, face to face, phone/video call, text/email or even a handwritten letter. Just remember communication is very important for yourself, your partner(s) and for both of your safety and wellbeing.
Do you think media (like movies, books, etc.) has influenced your perceptions of turn-ons and attractiveness?
In some ways I can say that outside influences have definitely influenced perceptions of turn-ons and attractiveness. Not necessarily in the way you would think. For me, it showed me different things that I had never known about or had even even considered. Once your curiosity is sparked, then it can easily turn into a fantasy, a desire, a want and possibly even a need. Then I looked into that specific thing, did a bit of research and then made the decision about it.
How do you think booking escorts has influenced how people discover and communicate their turn-ons?
Everyone is completely different, so I think it is very dependent on each situation and person. But I think how most independent escorts run and operate nowadays has helped a lot of people with discovering, communicating and trying new things. Because if someone doesn’t know something, then it can’t really be a turn on. But it is definitely very exciting when you discover new things that turn you on in which you want to experience, it can be very exciting and a lot of fun.
Can you share an experience where effective communication about turn-ons enhanced your personal or professional relationship? What did you learn from it?
A big one for me personally, is when after a certain type of service kept being requested, over and over again, I finally said fuck it and decided to try it. I did some research, spoke to a few professionals in that area of expertise and turns out… I fucking love it! Not only that, but I’m actually pretty good at it. Definitely want to expand my knowledge and experience with it before fully offering it as something I can consider myself a professional with. So the saying “don’t knock it till you try it” is pretty spot on in my opinion.
Are there any cultural or societal factors that you believe have influenced your perceptions of attractiveness and turn-ons? How do you navigate these influences in your personal and professional life?
For the most part I dont believe cultural or societal factors have influenced my own perceptions of attractiveness and turn-ons, but i would definitely say that my personal tastes and preferences would be very different from a lot of people i regularly come into contact with nowadays. I was raised in Canada, I used to travel quite a bit to Jamaica and I have had a huge variety of jobs over the years. So I have completely different experiences with different cultures, I have seen men and women from so many different walks of life all with very definite body types and was lucky enough to be able to come out as bi-sexual at a much earlier age than a lot of other LGBTQI+ people. I never had to navigate any of them though, i was lucky i guess, i have always liked what i liked and that was it. I have never liked something because it’s something you are “supposed” to like.
What advice would you give to individuals looking to explore their own turn-ons or preferences for the first time? How can they do so in a healthy and respectful way?
While discovering and exploring new turn-ons or preferences can be fun and exciting, you still want to keep yourself and your partner(s) safe as well. So do your research, read articles, watch videos and/or speak to someone with real experience such as a professional (sex worker, professional dom/domme, kink/fetish expert ect). Jumping straight into something that you know absolutely nothing about could be very dangerous. Don’t take unnecessary risks just for the hell of it, your future self will not appreciate it.
In your opinion, how can open and honest communication about turn-ons and desires contribute to healthier and more fulfilling relationships?
In my opinion, having open and honest communication about turn-ons and desires will only ever make your relationships (personal or professional) more fulfilling and healthier. The only time it might not have the “best” outcome, is when everyone realises that they can’t provide that to the other person(s), which can definitely be disappointing. But if you want the best experience with anything new, then nothing other than a “fuck yes” from the other person should be accepted because if its not enthusiastic consent then its a NO.
Have you encountered situations where clients or partners have felt uncomfortable discussing their turn-ons or boundaries? How do you create a safe and non-judgmental space for such conversations?
I have encountered situations where my clients or partners have felt uncomfortable discussing their turn-ons or boundaries, which is pretty common and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that, as we’ve all been there, especially if we haven’t felt safe or secure with someone before. I have always tried my very best to always be warm, welcoming and accepting to all people. Which I think I have done well over the years as I have had many people tell me that I helped them to feel comfortable and safe, which makes me feel pretty awesome and honoured.
