What turns me on

Escort journals

What turns you on?
I looooove a long, slow build up. A lux dinner with a long conversations and some cheeky flirting, lots of long slow touches and caresses up arms and thighs. Sharing a bath and slowly teasing and playing and taking our time wrapped up in each other. I just think the excitement and nerves of the build-up all part of the fun.
What genre of music or particular songs set the mood?
OOh i love some old school big band/swing/jazz type of music to set the mood I just think it’s so romantic softly playing in the background.
What non-physical attributes do you find appealing in clients?
Oh I have so many
– A smile! There are so many types of smiles that never fail to turn me on, a sleepy, satisfied post orgasm smile, a little hidden smile after you receive a compliment, a cheeky flirty smile, a crinkley eyed wide mouth smile… oof the list just goes on and on.
– Kindness and Respect
– Generosity
How do you explore new turn-ons or fantasies in a safe and consensual way?
Communication is always always key!
Being able to have an open and honest conversation about something new you want to try in a non-sexual and low pressure environment first to see if it is something both you and your partner would be interested in trying.
Reasearch the turn-on/kink/fantasy: What do you need to consider during the act, are there any risks to you or your partner? How can those risk be minimised? What boundaries do you and your partner have around the act
Regular check ins: Regular check ins for both yourself and your partner during the act, especially especially important if it’s your first time exploring a new turn-on/kink/fantasy! You may have a fantasy that turns you on like crazy when you think about it but might find you don’t actually feel the same about it in practice, having regular check ins to ensure both parties are still enjoying the expirence is key to ensuring a very enjoyable, safe and consensual time is had for all!
How do you think booking escorts has influenced how people discover and communicate their turn-ons?
I think booking an escort to discover their turn ons is fantastic, it provides a safe, judgement free zone to verbalise and explore turn ons safely and without fear that can be associated with exploring turn ons with a regular partner.
Do you think media (movies, books, etc.) has influenced your perceptions of turn-ons and attraction?
I think this is super complicated question, that i do not have the brainpower to analyse fulling right now, but in short…
Online media has definitely given me the safe and opportunity to discover and explore myself and my turn-ons (hello 16 year old me discovering queer fanfiction), however it also gave me many ideas and expectations on what sex and attraction should be like which were not realistic or helpful.