I know that seeing a sex worker can bring up a few nerves, especially if it’s your first time. This little guide is here to help you feel prepared, relaxed, and ready to enjoy yourself. None of it is about being perfect, just respectful, considerate, and curious.
Here’s how to make our time together smooth, sexy, and comfortable for us both.
Grooming
You don’t need to arrive freshly scrubbed, I’ll pop you in the shower when you arrive, and I’ve got everything you might need to feel clean, comfortable, and confident.
If you’re hoping to finger me (I hope so!) please make sure your nails are clean, cut short, and filed smooth. That tiny bit of care makes all the difference.
I appreciate facial hair and body hair of all kinds (I have to stop myself from petting you the whole time). You don’t need to shave or trim anything for my benefit.
Arriving Discreetly
Discretion helps keep both of us safe, relaxed, and free to enjoy ourselves fully.
Please follow my arrival instructions exactly, I promise they’re simple. Save any booking related conversation until we’re alone together inside, where other people can’t overhear us. Consider us role playing as old friends until then!
If you’re tracking early, please let me know, I’m usually a bit early too. But please do not loiter around my incall waiting for our booking time to roll around.
Sexual Health
I appreciate your concern for your sexual health, it’s something I take very seriously myself. My livelihood depends on it!
I always use barrier protection to keep things safe. If you’d prefer, I can also provide a dental dam for oral on me, just let me know.
Some people ask if I can share my STI test results. While I test regularly, I don’t share those results, as they can’t reflect my real-time status. It wouldn’t be fair to present them as “current” when I’ve had other partners since testing, and re-testing between every encounter just isn’t realistic. The best way to protect both of us is through proper condom use and regular testing on your end.
It’s also worth noting that sex workers in Australia have lower rates of STIs than the general population, thanks to consistent condom use, regular testing, and a high level of sexual health literacy.
It’s great to be aware of the risks of sex, as there always will be an element of risk. Honestly, it’s so attractive when people take sexual health seriously!
Personal Questions
I’m happy to talk openly about myself and welcome your questions—I like our time together to feel like a real world date. I want you to feel comfortable getting to know me and enjoying our connection.
Sometimes, though, I might give answers that are a little vague. That’s just me protecting my privacy and safety. When that happens, I’ll always word things in a way that feels comfortable for me.
Thanks for taking the time to read this little guide. Being curious about my preferred etiquette already shows you’ll be a great client. I’m looking forward to meeting you!
Poppy Paisley xx
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