So, you’ve found yourself lingering on the profile of a professional submissive—maybe it was the collar in the photos, the way her eyes ask what would you do to me?, or maybe you’ve always wanted to take control, but weren’t sure how to start. Whether you’re a seasoned Dom/Domme or just getting curious about power play, booking a session with a pro submissive like me—Tilly Bound—can be deeply intimate, wildly erotic, and yes, a little intimidating.
Don’t worry, I’ve got you. Here’s everything you need to know before our first session.
1. This Is Not Just Kink—It’s Connection
Seeing a pro submissive isn’t about barking orders at a stranger. It’s a co-created space where consent, fantasy, and chemistry intertwine. Yes, I adore being used, controlled, or objectified but only within the delicious, negotiated container we build together.
If you’ve never played in this dynamic before, that’s totally okay. What matters most is curiosity, respect, and a willingness to listen and learn.
2. Get Clear on Your Desires (and Limits)
What do you fantasize about? What turns you on in a power exchange dynamic?
Before you book, take a moment to write down some thoughts. Are you into bondage, spanking, foot worship, degradation, service dynamics, roleplay, or orgasm control? Do you want to be the commanding boss, the cold and calculating handler, the soft daddy, or something else entirely?
Just as important: what are your no’s? Hard limits are sexy because they build trust.
When you book with me, I’ll send you a pre-session form to help clarify your turn-ons, boundaries, and expectations. Don’t skip it, it helps us both create something electric.
3. Prepare to Show Up With Presence
A good Dom isn’t defined by their crop or their commands, it’s all about presence. I don’t need perfection, I need you to be real with me. Dominance isn’t about bravado, it’s about intentionality. When you speak, I want to feel your confidence. When you touch, I want to feel your care.
This doesn’t mean you need experience but it means you need to show up. Mentally. Emotionally. Sensually.
Pro tip: Put your phone away, breathe, and take a moment to feel into the dynamic before jumping in.
4. It’s Okay to Be Nervous
First time seeing a pro sub? I love that. Nervousness means you care. You want to do it right. That makes me feel safe, and it’s the start of a really juicy dynamic.
If you don’t know how to start, say that. I can guide you in. Whisper “you’re mine now,” or place a hand on the back of my neck, or tell me to kneel. I’ll melt for you.
It’s okay to be soft. Being a dominant doesn’t mean being emotionless. It means taking the lead with care.
5. Aftercare Is Part of the Magic
Power play can be intense both physically, emotionally, energetically. Aftercare isn’t a “maybe,” it’s part of the scene. Whether it’s cuddling, a glass of water, a soft blanket, or simply holding space while the adrenaline fades, I need it and so do you.
We’ll always discuss this before and after the session, but don’t underestimate the beauty of being gentle with your toy once you’re done playing with her.
6. Curiosity Is Sexy—So Ask Questions
Don’t be afraid to ask: “How do you like to be dominated?” or “What gets you into subspace?” or “What’s your favorite part of being a submissive?”
The best scenes I’ve had are with people who ask and listen. Even though I’m the one submitting, you can give me the gift of being seen.
Final Thoughts:
Seeing a pro submissive like me isn’t about a performance. It’s about creating a container where something real, filthy, and beautiful can happen. You don’t have to know all the right words. You don’t need a leather outfit or a flogger collection. You just need curiosity, respect, and the confidence to show up as you are.
If you’re ready to explore control, surrender, and everything in between; I’m already waiting for you, on my knees.
With a smirk and a blindfold,
Tilly Bound
(aka Tilly Today, but a little more obedient)
Explore the world of BDSM with Tilly Bound, a premier submissive escort in Melbourne. Offering tailored BDSM experiences and fetish sessions, Tilly provides a safe, consensual space for those seeking to delve into dominance and submission dynamics. Whether you’re new to the scene or an experienced Dominant, discover unforgettable encounters with one of Melbourne’s top professional submissive companions.
