PICTURE THIS.
You have been on a couple dates with someone cute. You’ve been getting to know each other and things are going well. The vibe is getting flirtatious, you’re drawn to each other physically. After another connective and engaging date, they pull you close, and you kiss. Their soft lips on yours sends sparks through your entire body. You both pull away, make eye contact briefly, then connect again for another delicious taste. Your hands caress each other, you pull each other in, and you feel the stirrings in your nethers. Or perhaps you’re instantly rock hard, maybe you’re one of those guys. They invite you into their bedroom and you’re there, you’re so there. OMG its going to happen! You take their hand, and you murmur… “Cum on Body?”
They visibly cringe. Why did you say that for? You’ve killed the mood. They tell their friends about you. You’re “Cum on Body Guy” now. They never want to see you again.
MEANWHILE, SOMEWHERE ELSE IN THE MULTIVERSE:
They invite you into their bedroom and you’re there, you’re so there. OMG it’s going to happen! You join them in an intoxicating exchange of energy, being present in the moment. Taking the time explore the intense sensual experience of being intwined with each other.
At some point their hand is wrapped around your throbbing cock and you feel like you’re going to explode. “I’m going to cum soon… would it be okay if I finish on your gorgeous body?” you ask, between passionate kisses. “Mmmm yes please!” they exclaim and they shift a little so you can have a better aim.
They grin at you and groan softly as you release yourself all over their chest. They run a finger through your warm fluids, commenting on how big your load was and giggle. You reach for a nearby towel and give your sticky partner a quick wipe down, then take your place at their side, snuggling in, kissing them. “God that felt amazing” you say, “you’re so fucking sexy… is there anything I can do for you now?”.
They tell their friends about you. You’re a babe. You’re an enthusiastic and adventurous lover. They can’t wait to see you again and see what other sexy fun you might get up to.
WHERE AM I GOING WITH THIS?
You didn’t find me on Hinge or Bumble. I’m a sexworker. Isn’t the whole point of seeing an escort that you get to do things that YOU want to do, and ask for things point blank that you wouldn’t usually be able to get? This is pretty standard practice in this industry, and most of us will have a list of things we do and do not offer, listed on our website or directory ads.
But not all sexworkers were created equal. In fact, we’re real live human beings, with our own unique personalities, motivations, sexual proclivities and service offerings.
Each of us decides what works for us. Some sexual activities are going to be enjoyable, some will be a neutral experience. Some activities we will find unpleasant but are happy to do for money (just like any other job). Some things we will find too unpleasant or unsafe to do, even for money, and will have a firm boundary around this.
SEX WORK IS WORK. BUT ITS STILL SEX.
For me, at-work intimacy is not just a transaction. I want to give you a genuine sexual experience and share myself with you authentically, as if we were dating. I need to be turned on, I aim to enjoy myself, and ideally, time permitting, I want to climax. Yes, I know – that should not always be the goal. But I climax pretty easily and often, so its generally within reach if you’re not actively turning me off.
My booking process may differ from what you are used to. I will not guarantee specific sex acts or positions, because my focus is on engaging in sex that feels right for me in the moment. This approach allows me to remain fully present and genuinely enjoy our time together.
I’m looking for clients who appreciate this perspective—those who understand that intimacy is about creating a connection, not just fulfilling a list of desires.
However, you will find that I’m a very open-minded person (Read: Kinky). And one of the things I find very sexy is enthusiasm, joy and responsiveness. So if something in particular really gets you going, or you’ve been dreaming about trying something new, I’m going to be very excited to share that experience with you.
