Sai Jaiden Lillith

40 years old, Melbourne
SWA: 10426XE

About me

Non-binary Escort, ProDom/me, Educator, Shibari artist

Fall in love every day

Deeply, carelessly, recklessly

Like your heart's a stolen muscle

driven wildly into the sunset.

My name is Sai Jaiden Lillith, a non binary escort (male bodied) based in Melbourne, touring Sydney regularly and available through most of Australia. Exploring the magic of eroticism, connection and sex is a passionate vocation for me, and one to which I am deeply committed.

Connection in all its forms is what we crave as humans. Connecting through our erotic energies and exploring flesh, hearts and minds is a beautiful, essential part of our existence. We are unique in our desires, whether it's for a gentle touch and whispered words, fucking the night away in wild abandon, or exploring the myriad delicious possibilities of BDSM and kink.

The common thread is that we all need a safe and consensual space to really be free to explore joyfully and uninhibited.

Seeking a provider that you feel comfortable seeing, especially if you're wanting to explore BDSM and kink, can seem like a daunting task! Questions like "Are they safe?", "Do they have the skills that I'm looking for?", "Will I be rejected?" are all thoughts that can cross your mind.

First of all, let me reassure you that I have only ever refused to see clients who I believe would not be a good fit based on my skill set, or who have been disrespectful or even dangerous. I believe we are all worthy and deserving of acceptance and joy. Any provider who would refuse you on appearance or body type is basically a stupid jerk. Period.

As far as experience goes, I've been working in the sex industry since 2015, and have had the privilege of working at Sydney's illustrious Temple 22 and the Kastle. My training has been extensive and I've had the honour of working with and learning from a variety of local and international sex experts such as Mistress Tokyo, Penelope Dreadful, Yagami Ren, Hajime Kinoko and more. I've been a presenter and performer at OzKinkFest and Sexpo, and provide education and training in BDSM and the arts of eroticism.

Consent is at the heart of my practice, and I engage in lengthy and detailed negotiations to ensure that you will have the best and safest experience that we can create together!

I delight in exploring the possibilities inherent in the full spectrum of sensation and conscious power exchanges. Amongst other things I have a deep passion for Shibari (Japanese Rope Bondage) - there is so much that can be said and done with rope, from a soft whisper to a binding that takes your breath away.

I have a lifetime's experience of exploring sex, bodies and minds of all kinds, kinks and desires, and I would love to turn my skills to your needs.

Would you like a social date to get to know each other to see if we're a good fit? Or a chilled out night of good food (I am an EXCELLENT chef!) followed by some delicious play? Perhaps you just want a dedicated Shibari bondage experience in the hands of an expert. Maybe you'd love to have someone to explore all the dark desires that you keep locked away... Do you seek a journey, to drop into a deep ritual space to explore what shadows lurk within and harness your erotic energies for transformation and healing?

From holding and guiding an inexperienced beginner through your first explorations to dancing together along the edges of extreme peak experiences, I am open to a variety of requests and activities, so please feel free to contact me to ask anything! I promise you a non-judgemental space where you can be heard, seen and held.

What is it that you truly desire?

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My services

Body worship
Covered blow job
Cross dressing
Costumes and role play
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My interests

Arts & culture
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1 hour$400
1.5 hours$600
2 hours$750
Additional hours$300
Dinner Date + Play (4 hours)$1,200
Dinner Date + Play (6 hours)$1,700
24 hours$4,000


  • Monday
    11:00 am - 1:00 am
  • Tuesday
    11:00 am - 1:00 am
  • Wednesday
    11:00 am - 1:00 am
  • Thursday
    11:00 am - 1:00 am
  • Friday
    11:00 am - 1:00 am
  • Saturday
    11:00 am - 1:00 am
  • Sunday
    11:00 am - 1:00 am
  • Notes: Available by appointment Pre bookings preferred, but can be available at short notice Please contact me for my availability Flexible hours by appointment


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